Whether it’s in front of 10 people or 100, public speaking can be intimidating, and if you’ve been subjected to a lengthy, cliché-filled wedding speech, you know it’s not always easy to pull off a memorable toast. But before you panic, or sign up for Toastmasters, take a deep breath and sit back. We’ve got you covered with a slew of tips to help deliver the best wedding speech of all time.

With weddings ranging from tiny elopements to grand events and everything in between, you might be asking yourself what’s right for you? We’re going to break down what these two types of weddings are, who they best fit and how you can start planning.

While elopements can be an intimate way to tie the knot, it can feel like you aren’t truly celebrating your nuptials. A post-elopement party gives you the best of both worlds. Let us help you plan the perfect post-elopement party.